So if you're still holding out on pulling the trigger on experimenting with a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold or even something more complex like a sex swing, now's the time to get on top of it. Start with your torso more or less vertical and her legs on your shoulders. While the Missionary- and Doggy-inspired positions typically mean the man is in control of the action, positions that feature the woman on top allow your partner a lot more control over the speed, intensity and angle of penetration. Have her sit on table or counter with enough room for her to lean back, and with her butt slightly hanging off the edge. Talk to her beforehand to establish some boundaries and maybe a signal for whether you should stop; then during the act, work with her body language and cues to figure out your rhythm and how deep you can go. A more extreme variant of Legs On Shoulders, this one really puts you in the driver's seat. That's all this sex position demands!
One good turn deserves another — this position is the gender-swapped version of the above one and similarly allows her to relax and you to really get to work.
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Plus, he can control the depth and speed of penetration that works for them both. Perhaps the most famous version of this blowjob position is getting one in a car, known as "road head. The Viennese Oyster requires she place both of her ankles behind her head, fully exposing her vulva and folding her body into the shape of an oyster. Not all sex is created equal, however. They do offer the possibility of both of you facing each other, or away from each other; and either partner can take control of the thrusting, making these versions versatile options that offer pleasure for all comers. This variation, which is not for beginners, also requires some specific hardware, as you'll need a chin-up bar or some sort of equivalent bar for the top person to hang from.